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Child Custody & Visitation – Who Gets the Kids – When?

Child Custody & VisitationChild Custody and visitation is often the most difficult and emotional part of negotiating a workable and court-approved divorce settlement. Determining which spouse or parent will retain physical custody of the children is often the most emotional and contentious aspect of a legal separation or divorce. In most family cases, the California courts will seek to grant some form of joint custody. In such cases, it is up to the parents, with the help of a mediator, to determine the logistics of sharing time, including holidays, vacations, and any other special events.

It is assumed in all child custody and visitation arrangements that the child’s interests are put first and foremost. Fairness to parents or other interested parties is secondary to the interests of the child.

Sarah T. Schaffer - Child Custody & Visitation AttorneyChild custody attorney Sarah T. Schaffer, CFLS, LL.M understands that child custody and visitation can be some of the most bitterly disputed aspects of a divorce; however often times parents engaged in relentless custody disputes end up the losers: causing stress-related health issues and doing irrefutable emotional harm to the child or children. It is much better to work toward an amicable resolution for custody and visitation.

Not to belabor this point, but many judges who witness parents choosing conflict over resolution, will interpret the behavior as a net loss for the child. In these cases, the parties are often required to take parenting classes at their own financial expense.

Bottom Line? Family Attorney Sarah T. Schaffer strongly encourages her clients to negotiate a fair and reasonable parenting plan before their dispute goes to litigation. Once you give up on resolving the issue yourselves, you will incur a large financial expense and more importantly, you will sacrifice control of your child’s custody and visitation arrangements to the judge, — a judge who doesn’t know or love your child as you do.

In most custody cases, parents share legal custody of their children, which typically includes decisions about education, medical care and religious upbringing. One parent may be awarded a greater share of time with the children. More common in recent years, however, is that parents share joint physical custody, in which case the children divide their time equally between both parents’ households.

San Diego family law attorney Sarah T. Schaffer, CFLS or another of her hand-picked and experienced family law attorneys at Schaffer Family Law Group, APC can help you explore all your options and help create a plan that works for you and your children. To learn how we can help you, please contact us today.

Call Schaffer Family Law Group at (858) 509-7907 to schedule a strategy session today.

“Ms. Schaffer has delivered everything she promised and more for me and my 3 children. She has been the expert that I needed and stayed within my budget. I would recommend her to anyone with a family law issue.”

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